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Gatherings with Kristin

Once a month, Kristin will hold a 75 minute online gathering.  She will lead a 15 minute self-compassion practice, then open it up for questions from participants.  Have your questions answered on any topic! You can also access a library of fascinating questions and answers from past gatherings in the Learning Corner.

Upcoming Gatherings

Sample Q & A

Why Join the Self-Compassion Community?

We created the Self-Compassion Community as a place where people could come together to learn and strengthen the life-changing skill of self-compassion. By joining our community, you will be firmly on the path to developing a healthier, more authentic way of relating to yourself and others. As a community member, you will have access to:

Guest Conversations

In these 60 minute events, Dr. Neff will be joined by a colleague whose work touches on self-compassion.  These free-flowing conversations will focus on guests’ views of the importance of self-compassion in the work they do.  In addition to conversations with well-known luminaries, we’ll also focus on special topics such as self-compassion for teens, clinical applications, parenting, and so on. Time will be reserved at the end of each conversation for questions from participants.

Upcoming Guests

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Richard Schwartz

Feb 7, 2025 11:00 am - 12:00 pm CST

Richard Schwartz developed the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model of psychotherapy to explore the role that our different parts play in trying to keep us safe, and the importance of having compassion for all our parts.

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Dan Harris

Mar 5, 2025 7:30 pm - 8:30 pm CST

Dan Harris is a former ABC News anchor,  best-selling author of 10% Happier, popular podcast host and self-compassion convert.

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Susan Pollak

Apr 5, 2025 11:00 am - 12:00 pm CDT

Susan Pollak is a clinical psychologist and MSC teacher who has written a book on how self-compassion can help you be a better parent.

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Practice Toolkit

Practice asking "What do I need?"

Self-compassion involves giving ourselves what we need in the moment to alleviate suffering. Sometimes we need acceptance, sometimes we need to take action.  This toolkit will provide a variety of empirically-supported self-compassion practices to help you meet your needs with strength and warmth.  

These newly recorded guided practices are targeted toward different types of struggle such as feeling inadequate, caregiver distress, coping with difficult emotions, the need to stand up for yourself, the need to relax, and more. Practices are of different lengths, including mini practices (3 minutes or less) that can be used on the spot in daily life! New practices will be added continually.

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Drop-in Mentor Sessions

These one hour drop-in group Zoom sessions (held at a wide variety of times) are led by experienced self-compassion mentors.  It’s a great opportunity to get guidance and feedback about your self-compassion practice. Some sessions are also available for more experienced practitioners. While mentor sessions may be therapeutic, they are not therapy sessions but instead focus on building skills and resources. You can preview the full schedule here

Learning Corner Video Library

In the learning corner, you can view short videos of Dr. Neff teaching about various self-compassion topics: basic concepts,  fierce self-compassion, the science of self-compassion, compassionate motivation, working with difficult emotions, self-compassion for caregivers, core values, and much more. 

In the learning corner you can also watch selected Q&A dialogues in which Dr. Neff answers people’s questions about all aspects of self-compassion research and practice (see sample dialogue in the Gatherings with Kristin tab).

Sample Lesson:

The Three Elements of Self Compassion

FAQs about the Self-Compassion Community Membership

Other than price, how are monthly and yearly memberships different?

Both monthly and annual member plans have equal full access to events and member materials Here’s how they differ:

Monthly membership allows flexibility. You can pay month by month without a long-term commitment. Cancel at any time.
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The yearly membership as a few other advantages:
Long term savings:you save money compared to paying 12 months of annual membership.
Discounted Workshops: Annual members also recieve a 25% discount off workshops that are offered by the Self-Compassion Community.
Reliability & Commitment : You can use your membership consistently thorughout the year, or just know that it is there for you when needed.
Price Stabiltiy: Annual members are not subject to price inreases.

Not sure which is right for you? You can start as a monthly member and then upgrade later.

What are the steps to becoming a member?

1. If you have a guest account with us from prior membership attendance, you’ll want to login first
2. Select your preferred membership type (annual or monthly)
3. If it’s your first time creating an account with us, you will first
                   Verify your email
                   Set up a password
4. Choose a payment method
5. You’ll get a short tutorial on how to use the member side of the website
6. Look for welcome emails from Kristin with recommendations for how to get started

Do you offer scholarships or financial aid of some kind for membership?

Yes, we offer serveral scholarship options for both annual and monthly memberships. Simply click on the scholarship at the top of this page.

What time zone are your live events offered? What if I can't attend at that time?

All our events are based on US Central Standard Time, since we are headquartered in Austin Texas USA. However, we make special efforts to ensure that timing of our events varies for our global members.

Which events are recorded and which can only be attended live?

Guest conversations and Gatherings with Kristin are the events that are recorded. Our live drop in mentor sessions are not recorded.

Do you have organizational memberships?

Not yet, but we are working on that for the future. Let us know if you have an interest by emailing info@self-compassion.org

Do you have special memberships for therapists, psychologists and others who work in this field?

Not yet, but we are working on that for the future. Let us know if you have an interest by emailing info@self-compassion.org

Can I gift a membership to somene else?

Yes, whether you are a member or not, you can gift a membership to someone else. As a default, it is set to renew automatically, but you will be able to turn off auto-renew at any time from your own account.

Have more questions?

Contact us at SCCommunity@self-compassion.org

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