With self-compassion, we give ourselves the same kindness and support we’d give to a good friend

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The best way to practice self-compassion is with others, so we can recognize our common humanity. Make a commitment to self-compassion by joining the Self-Compassion Community, dedicated to helping people develop more inner warmth and support. As a community member, you will have access to:

About Self Compassion

Self-compassion is simply the process of turning compassion inward.  We’re kind and understanding rather than harshly self-critical when we fail, make mistakes, or feel inadequate.  We give ourselves support and encouragement rather than being cold or judgmental when challenges and difficulties arise in our lives. Research indicates that self-compassion is one of the most powerful sources of coping and resilience we have available, radically improving our mental and physical wellbeing. It motivates us to make changes and reach our goals not because we’re inadequate, but because we care and want to be happy.

This website offers information about self-compassion, as well as research, guided practices, and a way to test your own self-compassion level. You can also join our Self-Compassion Community if you’re ready to develop this life-changing skill.  It’s the right place to start your journey of learning to be more self-compassionate. 

Kristin Neff

Kristin Neff, Ph.D. is a pioneer in the study of self-compassion, being the first one to operationally define and measure the construct more than twenty years ago. She has been recognized as one of the world’s most influential research psychologists. Together with her colleague Dr. Chris Germer, she has created several empirically supported self-compassion training programs and co-founded the Center for Mindful Self-compassion. Dr. Neff has written several best-selling books about self-compassion, and is often featured in podcasts and other media advocating for the power of self-compassion to change lives.

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Books

Fierce Self-Compassion

Fierce Self-Compassion involves taking action to protect, motivate and provide for ourselves. This book reveals how to use self-compassion to transform ourselves and the world.

The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook

This workbook takes readers through the essentials of the Mindful Self-Compassion program. It will help you develop the life-changing skill of self-compassion.

Self-Compassion

This classic book is the place to start to learn how to treat yourself as you would a friend, enabling you to achieve your highest potential and live a more fulfilled life.

Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program

This is the authoritative guide to conducting the Mindful Self-Compassion program, which provides powerful tools for coping with life challenges and enhancing emotional well-being.

TEDx Talk: The difference between self-compassion and self-esteem

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